But can you hide your weirdness until I know you? I mean, yeah some people like to flaunt it and be like this is me. And if you are that person, I'm sure it's like a quirky, awkward weird and not like silence of the lambs I want to run for the hills weird. And to be quite honest with you, if you are bat shit crazy weird, I probably do want to know early on just to weed you out and not waste my time. But can we hide it a little better? I mean, if I can tell you are weird within the first couple of hours of knowing you, you are not hiding it that well.
I get a decent amount of guys looking at my online profile and messaging me. But I probably only want to respond to 1 in 20 of them. Why? They don't seem to have any personality that comes through their profiles. The stereotype is that girls like to talk right? That they can talk a guy's ear off. So why do most of the guys that message me only respond with "Hi." It's not even a "hi, how are you?" "Hi, how is your day going?" Nope. Just hi. My profile specifically even says "if you start a conversation with only hi, I will not respond." Second of all, please pretend like you want to get to know me before you start off with DTF or wanna hook up? Seriously, I'm sure there are some girls that just are down for that, but wouldn't they just advertise that right off the bat? If I wanted that, don't worry, I'll let you know. Third of all, please try to have skimmed my profile and see if we'd really get along. I don't want to waste your time, and I don't want to waste my time. I know they say to play the numbers game, but just because they are physically attractive, doesn't mean you will get a long. Fourth of all, as you are skimming, If I am not using words like "u" instead of "you" or "ur" instead of "your" then I probably don't like that type of typing.
It's not that difficult to start an online relationship with someone just have a social consciousness of what message you are trying to convey and follow the other person's kind of grammatical style or general interests.
And my top 5 most weird "I just met you online but here is how I am weird" conversations are:
5) A guy, within about a day of emailing back and forth said to me "I like receiving anal. What do you think about that?" That's a weird thing to announce right off the bat, right? If that's your thing, that's cool. But I mean, if we were on the subject that's one thing but since we weren't....I kind of judge you as being weird.
4) A message I received said "You are so beautiful. I will be your slave. You can tell me to do anything for you. I will just follow you around." - Does anyone else seem creeped out by this?
3) This pertains to a previous post of the guy that said he wanted a girl with a huge ass and then proceeded to send me a profile picture of his ass asking if mine was bigger than his cartoonishly big ass. Also, within our first texting conversation.
2) A guy announced in his profile that there were legitimate circumstances for a girl to be raped.
Nope. Shut it down.
1) A guy messaged me and told me to check out his profile to see if I was interested. I went to check it out. Under "Things I like" was the following:
Guns
Violence
Rope
Blood
Does he get a little of game with that profile? Cause if so, who are the fucking weird-o girls that are saying "yes, that is ok. I want me a piece of that?!?!
I'd like to think that it's a generational thing but it is not. I have seen the gamete of 21 year olds to 50 year olds message me and only 1 in 20 seem worth responding to. Just....if it's super creepy weird then announce it to save us time. If it's quirky and endearing then I'm open to explore that type of weirdness.
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